4 Truths to Remember When You Wish You Weren't Married

Divorce is usually the farthest thought from a bride's mind as she plans her wedding. While she's walking down the aisle she isn't typically walking in regret. Most healthy couples are super excited to start their new adventure as husband and wife. But at some point thoughts like "I wish I wasn't married" creep into the minds of many married couples. The first year of marriage is a big adjustment for everyone. It can actually be much more than that, leading some to have doubts early on. For others the wish to be single again doesn't happen until they have been married many years. It's more common than you may think. People secretly wish they weren't married for a variety of reasons. For example:

You discover the person you are married to is a difficult person to live with.

Marriage may have brought with it much suffering in various circumstances (health, finances, etc.).

Some wish for a life that is less complicated (maybe the way it was back in college when all you had to worry about was homework and having fun)

Between kids, husband, work and home life there is little time for self, and the idea of being single and having time for yourself can be very appealing.

Daydreaming about what it would be like to be alone for a while (even if you only wish to be single for a few days) is an overflow of the fatigue, selfishness, or disrepair found in our hearts. If you have ever wished that you were not married then I hope these next few truths will encourage you as you look and fight for joy and satisfaction in your marriage.

1. God is not done with your spouse

If your husband is a believer then you can have full confidence that God is still at work in your husband’s life. He is a child of God and therefore God will work in and through him to restore the image of Christ. This work may seem slow, but God does not go back on His word nor does He ignore his child. The best thing you can do is encourage your husband and pray for him every day.

If your husband is not a believer then be diligent in praying that God will grab a hold of his heart and drastically change it. Be an example of Christ’s love to him, especially during hard times, and trust God to do what only He can do.

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