"No matter how just your words may be, you ruin everything when you speak with anger." -- Chrysostom
I struggle with anger. I had no idea that this sin lived in my heart until God gave me a family. I am still having a hard time admitting this because all of my life I prided myself on the fact that I was patient and slow to anger. Turns out my patience and longsuffering were never put to the test until I had a family.
I know I am not the only one who is distraught about the anger that can so regularly bubble to the surface of the heart and then overflow into unkind tone of voices and snippy responses. For some that slow burn irrupts into an all out fit of rage and yelling. Seneca calls anger "a short fit of madness."
The worst part about anger is that is does not bring about the righteousness of that we desire (James 1:19) Instead it hurts those who are at the receiving end of our anger, disfigures our character, breeds hatred and distrusts, tears apart relationships, and worst of all dishonors God.
It ruins everything.
"[Anger] devours almost all other good emotions. It deadens the soul. It numbs the heart to joy and gratitude and hope and tenderness and compassion and kindness." -- John Piper
But where do we begin and how do we fight?
[Read the rest of the article at For the Family.]