Six months ago, I wrote a column at Fox News regarding the fact that my wife and I made the choice to wait until marriage. Some people claimed offense. As per usual, I'm okay with that.
Here's why; I'm pro-marriage. I always have been, always will be and I'll make no apologies for it. As a matter of fact, most of you should be apologizing to me. Yeah, I said it. Whether you're one with a successful marriage who's remained silent on its myriad virtues, or merely a single, lonely critic ... America, you've got some 'splaining to do.
Sadly, marriage has become a punchline in today's society. From referring to the wife as "the old ball and chain" to nearly every poorly written sitcom that we watch, the message we're sending to today's generation is clear... Marriage = no fun.
Men on TV constantly joke about how wives are incredibly expensive, demanding and overall vacuums of all things fun. By that same token, the women complain about their fat, lazy, insensitive husbands as they swoon over their trimmed, manicured and chest-waxed Hollywood counterparts.
Ever see a commercial with a wife and husband shopping together? Yeah, we always play the idiot.
I know plenty of people my age that will never get married because they genuinely believe the false cultural meme that marriage has sadly become. There's only one problem. It's completely untrue.
Even more of a problem, those who know it to be untrue often do nothing to correct the lie.
As someone who comes from a family of lifers (along with my wife), I just want to say, flat out...
... Marriage is a really good deal.
[Read the rest of the article at Fox News.]