Answering Without Listening

! had a conversation with my son near bedtime. I said what I thought needed to be said; he listened politely. "Well," I said, after finishing my speech, "I am glad we had a chance to talk." I prayed with him and went to bed. A few minutes later there was a knock at our bedroom door.

"Dad, are you guys still awake?"

"Yeah, come on in, what’s up?"

“Well, Dad, I just wanted to say that when you left my room you said, 'I'm glad we had this chance to talk' and I just wanted to say that I didn't say anything."

"Oh, I see, I had a good talk, you had a good listen, right?"

"Yeah, sort of."

"If you had been given a chance to talk, what would you have said?"

"Oh, I don’t know, I just wanted to say that I didn't say anything."

What's the subtext here? "If you really want to know, you're going to have to work harder than that, Dad, I am not going to be that easy."

Most of us think of communication as the ability to express our ideas. The finest art of communication is the ability to understand the other person. Proverbs speaks to this issue with great insight.

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