As Families Falter, What's Your Story?

familiesfaltermainWhen a prominent man says he is stepping down to spend more time with his family, it's usually a fib. He invokes the family as a fig leaf for failure, embarrassed to admit the horse bucked him off.

But nothing like that is the case, I believe, with Ken Salazar's return to Colorado after serving as a senator and secretary of the interior. The veteran Democrat's words rang sweet and true to my Republican ear when Salazar told reporters he was coming back from Washington to fulfill "my highest moral responsibility ... helping my family." If there were a medal of honor for unsung home front heroism, give one to Ken.

Our society, however, does not heap honors on fathers and mothers and kids and kin who quietly do right by each other and, in so doing, build the future. It's a pity, because the institution of the American family is disintegrating before our eyes. The household has literally become a home front, a battlefield -- and the me-first forces are winning everywhere you look.

According to the 2010 census, fewer than six in ten babies are now born to a married mom and dad. For Hispanic children, it's fewer than five in ten. For blacks, fewer than three in ten. Getting married before getting pregnant is the best single anti-poverty strategy for a woman and her kids. Yet public policy, social signals, and the cultural climate are massively aligned against it. A soft suicide is in progress.

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