A few months ago I was with my family eating at Chick-Fil-A and I noticed an advertisement next to the counter. It said, "Make your reservations today to spend Valentines with your Love here at Chick-Fil-A. We will be serving a candlelit dinner for 2 from 5:00-9:00pm." As we were leaving, I showed Stephanie, my wife, the ad, and half-jokingly told her that I’d made reservations for the two of us. She shot me a look that very clearly said: "Don't bring me here for Valentine's Day." Yes, I was half-kidding, but I was also half-serious. Thankfully, I listened and we celebrated elsewhere.
Birthdays, anniversaries, and Valentine’s Day are all jam packed with hopes and expectations. It's really no surprise that Stephanie and I have had our most difficult fights surrounding these big days.
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