A soft answer turns away wrath, but a harsh word stirs up anger.
What is the wise response to an angry person who says something cruel, false or demanding? Proverbs 15:1 helps us in those awkward moments at home, at work, in our churches.
The key is "a soft answer."
So, you're standing there, stunned by those words that have just exploded in your face. In that instant of decision, as your mind is forming a response, "a soft answer" is the category you need. What is that?
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The word "soft" means tender, delicate, gentle, even weak. We don't like being weak, especially when we find ourselves in the crosshairs of anger. We would rather justify ourselves. It is hard to be wronged. It is doubly hard to be wronged and not fight back but respond softly.
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