Kids Don't Need Pinterest Perfect

We can learn a lot from the Internet, can't we? Chances are very high that you're reading this article right now via the Internet — email, social media, a blog. As women, we are surrounded by voices in this new age of "information." I can't tell you how many times I've searched Google for "how long does it take to boil an egg" and "what to do for a bee sting." (I know I should know how long to boil an egg. But for some reason, I almost always have look it up.) Don't judge. I grew up on cereal.

Truly, having access to life online has changed our culture. For the most part, I love it. It's opened up a world to us that was much harder to reach in 1976. I remember a time when encyclopedia salesmen traveled door to door selling books. I believe I bought a set for my own kids in the early 90's! The Internet has made that sort of thing obsolete, because we're getting our "information" from a much broader set of voices now — a new platform of voices, previously unheard.

Today, we can hear from virtually anyone who wants to be heard: from the mini-van mama to the movie star mom and every mom in-between. Most moms want to do the best thing for their kids — and that's great— but in recent years, I've been seeing a new generation of moms who are comparing themselves to a mom who doesn't exist — the mom who seems to have it all together. It's easy to open up Facebook or Pinterest and see images of perfect days and fabulous dinners that are airbrushed (literally!) to perfection.

We like to put our best picture forward — but what message are we sending to our kids with all this perfectionism? When we begin to think that everyday life is supposed to be like that, guess what? Our kids miss out on the messy but good stuff of life. I've struggled in recent years as a busy mom of two grown daughters and five children still at home to find balance between that "ideal" mom and being a mom who isn't afraid to let good things go for better things.

To my kids, at least, "better" is not Pinterest perfect. It's just access to their mom.

[Read the rest of the article at The Better Mom.]