Role-Playing: A Creative Parenting Tool

roleplayingmainAs a parent I want to create opportunities to have meaningful and fruitful conversations with my children. I often use role-playing as a means to accomplish that goal. Role-playing is when you present a situation to your children and ask them what they would do and say as they take on different roles in the story. For example, your child may not know what to do when a peer pressures him to lie or cheat. Role-playing gives children an avenue in which to practice possible responses to difficult situations. It allows children to think with you about situations they haven't encountered. This helps you understand how your child thinks by providing a window into his fears, into areas he grapples with temptation, and into situations in which he might be caught off guard.

Learning to Apply Biblical Principles

Since kids tend to think in black-and-white terms, it can be challenging for them to wisely navigate the grey areas in life. Children may even understand biblical principles but struggle to apply them in the moment. Role-playing is an opportunity to take teachable principles—demonstrating love, kindness, mercy, forgiveness, safety -- and transfer them into different situations. This type of conversation primes children to take one principle and apply it to a multitude of contexts they might not have considered. It helps expand their understanding of the principle as they see it applied to different contexts, and it prepares them for the many situations that may (or may not) happen. As you use this tool, provide a spectrum of possibilities: from the silly, to the obvious, to the confusing, to the dangerous, to a scenario that seems impossible.

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