Do you ever feel like you live in a revolving door? You know, just when you think life will slow down and pause long enough for you to hop off and take a breath, it just spins on and on and on!! Demands, obligations, others' needs, a to-do list that never gets shorter, and surprise situations that come up can keep you feeling like you're going round and round and getting nowhere fast!
That revolving door doesn't feel like a way to get from one place to another, it feels more like a trap — a place where you have no control over where you’re going and when you’ll get there.
Does your life feel that way sometimes? Does it feel that way now?
Mine does! I just finished up my last speaking engagement for the spring season and I thought that when my traveling was done and summer came, so would a chance to breathe! But, not yet sister!! I feel like I'm in that revolving door of demands and the momentum is pushing me and pulling me until I feel powerless to manage my own life!
Let me be clear though, I am no victim of my schedule and I am not ungrateful for my life — no stinkin' way! But I am running out of breath and need to get a handle on what I’m doing and when I’m doing it and why I’m doing it. Can I get a witness out there?!
It’s time to break the cycle ... get a grip on our lives and hop out of that revolving door so we can take a breath!
If you’re stuck in a pattern that pushes you from one thing to the next; if your life feels like you are stuck in a revolving door ... we are about to bust out!
Here’s what I’m trying to do to break out of this crazy cycle:
I imagined what would happen if I really was stuck in a revolving door — you know, like in the airport or a department store. What would I do? Would I stomp my feet in anger or pout or claw the glass or try to run faster within the spinning? No ... here are the things I would do in a real revolving door, and they work in real life too!
1. Calm Down
I don’t know about you, but when I feel out of control or under a lot of pressure, I can easily get all worked up and panic. But, panicking while you’re spinning around in revolving door won’t help you at all, will it?