The Problem with Mess Ups

problemmessupmainYou just realized you were angry at your children and snapped at them instead of giving even, pleasant correction and discipline for their wrong behavior. So you say something like this. "Kids, I messed up and should not have snapped and been upset when you were not obeying me. I have been really stressed lately. Sorry, I messed up again. Let's get back to work."

Euphemisms for sin, like "messing up," hinder your parenting. When sin is correctly identified, there is hope. There is little hope for mess ups when the words are a euphemism for sin. So in this illustration the parent has acted to explain away his sinful actions. He has tried to put a bandaid over his sin.

David recognized this in Psalm 51. In verse 4 of the psalm he says:

"Against you, you only, have I sinned and done what is evil in your sight..."

There is no holding back. David is open before God, and he is simply stating the obvious. God is not impressed with our euphemisms. What he wants is the honesty of a heart that doesn't attempt to hide the seriousness of sin. In verse 6, David says, "Surely you desire truth in the inner parts; you teach me wisdom in the inmost place."

[Read the rest of the article at Shepherd Press.]