The Best Move You Can Make in Your Marriage

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He wasn’t about to budge. That much was evident.

I could see it in his eyes. Could tell by his body language. My husband was in his Brick-Wall-Mode and he wasn’t moving.

All I’d done was ask him to change — only change this one thing that bothered me greatly — and yet he was rather closed to the idea. Completely closed, in fact. I’m not even sure if he was listening.

What to do now?

That’s what I was left wondering. Because I sure wanted him to do it differently.

I figured I had options. I might resort to crying, yelling, whining, pouting or maybe some serious nagging — although I’d have to admit I’ve never had much success with any of those approaches. Nor could I find any support for it in the Bible. No, I would have to come up with a better plan.

So with a big, heavy sigh, I began praying.

Not a stiff, formal prayer, but a pour-your-heart-out and a Lord-You-made-this-man-so-now-what? kind of prayer. I bet you know the kind I’m talking about.

And then I waited. Prayed some more. Waited and waited and waited.

Still nothing.

[Read the rest of the article at The Time-Warp Wife.]